Monday, April 07, 2008

My baby loves me.... :D

Recently, we had a conversation with a guy friend... and we talked about the differences in expressing love for both male and female. :) VERY different... when men, or so i think, consider the effort they put in for the simplest thing... women, so i think again, look at the result... or how the 'surprise' effect or whatever....
AGAIN, it's MY unerstanding...

Well, my baby loves me... i know he does... he doesn't text me in the day out of the blues to tell me he misses me or loves me nor does he spring on sudden surprises for me (well... still hoping), nor does he send me flowers for no rhyme or reason.... u get the idea.... the 'usual' things.. BUT he loves me... and i appreciate his effort...

Cuz he...
1) massages my legs almost every night cuz of my water retention
2) gives up nights with his friends or networking so he could spend time with me
3) 'burdens' himself with the worries and stress of supporting the household so i don't need to do it
4) settles the payments and bills and all so well that i don't even know what needs to be paid for
5) scringes on himself so i get the finer things
6) does the laundry and drying of clothes so that i don't need to bother with it cuz of my pregnancy
7) sends me to the docs and signs us up for maternity classes so i know what to expect for pregnancy
8) deals with my in-laws, esp in times of misunderstanding, so that i don't get affected
9) carries my stuff without asking, cuz he thinks it's too heavy for me
10) entertains me with all the stuff i wanna do, even if he doesn't like it, so that i won't feel bored...

And the list goes on.... but over all and above... he loves me.... :) I know.... and his definition of love "Lots of voluntary action".... how sweet can he be... :D

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